by Debby Efurd | Jun 22, 2026 | Family & Life Lessons, Holidays & Seasons |
Today is Father’s Day, 2026. I’m thinking about my own father, in his heavenly home for many years. I still miss him. I’m writing for all the fathers, stepfathers, men who make a positive mark in our lives. Let me share the following story. For twenty-five years, a...
by Debby Efurd | Feb 23, 2026 | Family & Life Lessons |
Growing up I listened to my elders (most of the time) with their wise advice – clean your plate, make up your bed, wash behind your ears, the apple don’t fall too far from the tree … you get the picture. When I got older, I realized that a lot of the wisdom I...
by Debby Efurd | Feb 2, 2026 | Family & Life Lessons |
One man’s quiet courage during WWII proves that doing the right thing—especially when it’s costly—can preserve faith, dignity, and humanity.
by Debby Efurd | Dec 16, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons, Holidays & Seasons |
This year has been like many before … making my list and checking it twice. I’ve completed all my many tasks in preparation for Christmas. Now it’s time for cleaning and deliveries to be made. Sad to say, I’ve been dealing with these “lists” like another chore to be...
by Debby Efurd | Nov 17, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons |
If life is a vapor as James 4:14 says, treasure every moment you have. It may not be your last lap, but live like it is and enjoy it!
by Debby Efurd | Nov 3, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons, History & Heroes |
Debby Efurd reflects on the powerful story of Oskar Schindler—an imperfect man transformed from a profit-driven Nazi industrialist into a courageous rescuer of 1,200 Jews during the Holocaust—reminding us that even flawed people can be used by God for redemption and good.
by Debby Efurd | Sep 29, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons |
I have the funniest and most unique husband in the world. When we first met, he told me he had an unusual habit of visiting old cemeteries to see the history of the dearly departed and imagine their life stories. This was a first for me and, honestly, I thought...
by Debby Efurd | Sep 22, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons |
I learned a lot from my Momma. To this day I hear her say, “Make up your bed; tie your shoes; eat your vegetables; did you brush your teeth?” But the all-time number one lesson was “Mind your tongue, young lady!” along with “If you can’t say something good about...
by Debby Efurd | Jun 2, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons, Holidays & Seasons |
In this month of May, 2025, America saw the largest number of graduates in the history of the United States. Our family has attended one graduation ceremony, and I bet many of you have attended one, if not more. Graduations are a celebration for the hard work achieved...
by Debby Efurd | May 27, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons |
As I was preparing to write this article on how to deal with difficult people, I originally intended to title it “Grumpy Old Men” after one of my favorite movies from 1993. Then it hit me — that’s not true. It’s not just men who can be grumpy, nor can it be just...
by Debby Efurd | May 19, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons |
By Debby Efurd “The only thing guaranteed in life is death and taxes.” — My daddy used to say that.While that may be true, there is something else guaranteed – every minute of every day, something will happen in the world that makes the news. That is true...
by Debby Efurd | May 5, 2025 | Family & Life Lessons, Health, Aging & Hope |
Let’s face it – I’m old — and I attend far too many funerals and memorial services. I attend out of respect for the families and in memory of the people I knew and cared about. Recently I’ve questioned, “What will be my legacy? What can I do that will make a...