Suffering In Life

I’ve come to the point in my life where medical issues become more commonplace.  In retirement now, my social life revolves around which doctors I will visit every week. I feel like I’m suffering while sitting on my pity pot. This week I remembered a person who...

Setting Limits

When I was young, I would like at those older than me (like parents, teachers, neighbors) and think to myself … “what’s it like to be so old?”  Then once I reached the ages I was remarking about, I kept wondering … “where has the time gone?” Well, I’m at that point...

What Is Your Legacy?

Let’s face it – I’m old — and I attend far too many funerals and memorial services. I attend out of respect for the families and in memory of the people I knew and cared about. Recently I’ve questioned, “What will be my legacy? What can I do that will make a...

Baby Steps

If anyone would have told me that I, as old as I am, would start a bold lifestyle change, I would say they were nuts … or worse. It goes to say you’re never too old to start listening to what doctors, experts, and your own body have been telling you (me) for a long...

Ending Well

This time of year, every year, people all over the world prepare for a new year. Most will make New Year’s resolutions for self-improvement — to exercise more, follow a healthier diet, save money, spend money, work on their bucket list – but, sadly, most...

Power of Prayer

For decades, scientists have observed the benefits of prayer and faith on a person’s mental and emotional health. Prayer benefits a person’s anxiety levels. Study after study, the power of a person’s faith and prayer life have been noted. With so many people talking...

Where’s Your Focus?

I have a confession to make.  I firmly believed when I retired I would stay the same as when I was working full time.  At first, I was … I maintained my focus, never got sidetracked, and even had to schedule time to sit still.  Boy, how things have...

I Can See Clearly Now

I am a stickler for keeping my calendar, always keep my appointments or reschedule when needed. My medical appointments and my health are very important to me, so I always keep my annual check-ups. For decades now, the doctor has said, “Debby, as we “mature” our...

The Dash In Between

Since time began, every human on the face of the earth began with a start date (birth) and an end date (death).  What shows up in between is a dash … standing for the life between the start and finish.  We see the dash in obituaries and on grave markers all...

When Time Runs Out

“LORD, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered— how fleeting my life is.” (Psalm 39:4) Every week we learn of the sudden and unexpected passing of a celebrity.  Each time I hear these news reports, I’m reminded that I may...

The Longest Dash

I was reading an article by Dr. Jim Denison this week memorializing actor and comedian Bob Saget.  He died ten months ago in January, and now his gravestone has been set. I remember Saget from TV as I was growing up. Always funny, he filled my nostalgia fix...

Inheritance

As each birthday rolls around, I see visible signs of aging.  Tiny wrinkles around the eyes, “age” spots on the arms, a little (too much) thickening around the waist, and glasses constantly. A friend told me she is thankful each day she wakes up and doesn’t feel...